"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
- Buddha
The May selection for my book club was The Burgess Boys by Elizabeth Strout. This book has garnered a lot of buzz because it is the long awaited follow-up to the Pulitzer Prize winning Olive Kitteridge (which, incidentally, is highly recommended by Will Schwalbe in The End of Your Life Book Club). I was very eager to read this book but, honestly, it didn't really sustain my interest. I found myself putting it down after only a few pages at a time. However, it is beautifully written with wonderfully descriptive language and it touches on a very powerful theme of sibling rivalry. Jim Burgess is a successful attorney in a powerful New York City law firm and famously defended a celebrity in a high profile murder case. He has a beautiful home, loving wife, and perfect children. Bob Burgess is a divorced alcoholic who works for a legal aid society. Both brothers fled their hometown of Shirley Falls, Maine, now an economically depressed mill town with an influx of Somali refugees, after a traumatic accident from their childhood resulting in the death of their father. They are forced to return to Shirley Falls, and their memories, when their sister Susan informs them that her son is in some serious trouble because of an incident with the Somalis. As the brothers try to deal with their nephew's legal troubles, revelations about the accident come to light which change the dynamic between the brothers (and their sister). As a result, Jim's well-ordered and perfect world begins to crumble while Bob stops drinking and takes charge of his life. None of these characters are particularly sympathetic and I found myself caring more about Adbikarim, the Somali who becomes the unlikely hero. Nevertheless, the idea that childhood memories can have a profound impact on the person you become is very powerful so I would recommend this book. I think I've been too distracted by the end of the school year chaos that has overtaken my life to give this book a fair chance.